Where did the idea of “finding the one” come from in the first place? If having that idea looming over you while dating in high school seems like a lot of pressure…that’s because it is! So, what if dating in high school wasn’t that high-stakes? Instead, what if dating in high school could be more about who you’re becoming, and less about finding your “one?”

In this 4-week series—for those who are currently dating and those who aren’t—we focus on how becoming the one is better than finding the one, fighting unhealthy obsession, dealing with breakups, and challenge students to pick their perspective when it comes to dating and disappointment.